Lacey Haynes

Hi, I'm Lacey. 

If you like your nipples free, your birth radicalised, your motherhood elevated, your sexuality empowered, your pussy bowed down to, your sacral chakra healed, then you've come to the right place.  -L x

 

I'm Not Straight

I'm Not Straight

I’m not straight. Fuck, it feels good to write this out loud. Even though I’m married to a man, even though I live a heteronormative seeming life, I want to claim my non-straightness. I suppose that queers me but I also don’t feel much of a proximity to this identifier either.
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I find bi too binary. Pansexual (not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity) probably gets closer to the point but it still doesn’t fit quite right. I suppose my sexual identity is one that encompasses the ethereal expanse of spirit and most identifiers don’t speak to this.
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I’m attracted to the inner landscape, the part of a person that cannot be pinned down by an identifier. Yes, bodies excite the hell out of me. The magnetism, the sensuality, the polarity of the feminine and the masculine = total fire pants, but all of this embodied eroticism is ignited by a deep soulful connection that transcends gender and sex.
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It would be easy to succumb to straightness when the primary relationship I’ve chosen is heterosexual. It would also be easy for these sexually expansive parts of myself to fall into dormancy within the perimeters of a marriage. But they don’t. My sexuality is a living thing and so too is my union with the person I’ve chosen.
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I’m a woman married to a man and I’m not straight. I’m a woman married to a man and together we write our own narrative on what this sacred union means. I’m a woman married to a man, I have a baby and I breastfeed and still, I’m sexual and desirous and turned on.
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What seems to define me does not nullify the truth of my awakening sexual consciousness. I cannot be straightened by the idea of who I am. My sexual energy will always transcend labels. #sexbomb

Pussy Gazing I London III

Pussy Gazing I London III

Making Pussy Magic

Making Pussy Magic

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